I realize that the role we played as children and young
adults in our families can contribute to our present feelings of self of
self-worth, feelings of social approval, as well as our psychological and emotional
well-being. I also realize throughout my studies of people and families that in
most families, there is at least one creative, sensitive, spiritual person who does
not share the same values and life style as well as decisions and beliefs of
the other family members.
Do not get discouraged, have anxiety or become depressed if
you are that person. Take pride in it. Most times, the family black sheep tends to
be the most honest about who they are and what they stand for. We are people
who are not afraid to stand up and speak out how we feel even at the risk of the
judgment of others from the family. We black sheep’s should proudly stand and cope with the
family ridicule before we compromise our beliefs or how we feel. We are living our
personal truth openly and willfully.
Though sometimes, it can be difficult to be the black sheep
and the family outcast, it is important to not change who you are to please the
family. Speak your truth. They may try to shut you down, however, never let
that stop you. You see, you need to come to terms that the things you were
taught to say and do to create your life canvas was colored by your families feelings
and beliefs and the black sheep is creative enough to add more variety of
shades and colors. So speak out and speak up and walk the path of being who you are!
Do not allow being the black sheep of your family rob you of
your self-esteem and the ability to believe in who you really are. Take pride in
being noticeably different. Know you have the courage to speak your own truth
even when family feels they can shut you off. Remember, your voice, your heart
and your spirit belong to you. The black sheep creates their own sense of
freedom and are true free spirited people.
